Not mine..!

It all begins with the word 'mine'.

Once attached, it changes a lot of things! The sense of possession makes us act in a different way no matter how much we deny! As soon as we start believing something belongs to us, there is an implicit right that tags along! (which is completely justified)
When it comes to people, one may become possessive about them just because of this right ! It feels good to hear "you're mine" but when that expression reaches a literal extreme it becomes a trouble for both sides!
But apart from that, its the mindset that we form about them which is hard to get over. "Only i have the right.. you should do this only for me"...and thousand other unavoidable expectations...The smallest clashes have the deepest impact. It happens that who we think belong to us were never really ours or maybe who we thought would be ours forever left us on the crossroads! All those times this 'mine' is the heart of all problems.

There are so many things we love in life. As an example, you are the rose in my garden but that does not mean i will be jealous when people look at you or praise you or even love you for that matter! I will love you because you will still be the most beautiful flower in my 'garden'...!!
Without attaching a 'mine' also we will not love them any less! And also this way no authority will exist and thus no mindset.Acting without the sense of mine is the best way to keep away from all these strong feelings..!

You're mine....? ... Not anymore..!