Distance between two people...

To realize the importance of someone
And know how much you love them

Not being able to see them everyday and
Missing the smallest things about them

Thinking about them every hour
Hoping that the time would fly

Crossing out 'blue' days on the calendar
Writing LONG letters as the days pass by

watching the moon for hours hoping they are doin the same
Every moment Wishing that- This DISTANCE never existed..

I miss u..!

This can be called a letter to my grandfather..though that is not what I had in mind when i began writing this..

Sometimes I wonder how it would have been if u were around..! How different a day would be..

You would call me everyday and visit me twice(minimum) a year in Pune.When I would come home I would spent a few days at your place..or maybe you would be staying with us at our place..I wonder what we would do?..talk?! about what? Watch t.v.? Sit n do calculation of your shares..(you know now there is a faster way of doing it on the Internet now) I could teach you that..

But no! No..I will not let you waste time on such unimportant stuff! See, morning i could come with you n visit d temple..then maybe we would cook something for lunch(making things easier for mom)..then afternoon i will let you sleep..In d evening we would go for a walk..aim of the day would be to spend time together!

I know i am not giving u any space or any time for yourself..But that is me..i will not change. This may be crossing your mind that i am like this because I do not have you by my side anymore..Oh no no..i had always been like this!

If only i had u with me today..you would be a major reason of the smile on my face..thinking about u n about d last days i had u around..still brings water in my eyes..! ;-(

The bond i share with my grandfather is too deep to understand.. I may write more about it in my next..

Something to ponder over…

Well I don’t know if this is the right post to start a blog.. but as told by my friend-“There is nothing different about writing a blog.. all the things that cross your mind which you put down on a paper,just type them here..” Hence my blog will talk about the feelings that produce scintiallations in my mind..! And here is the recent one.

RELATIONSHIP-almost everyone is a part of some kind of relationship (complete or incomplete)- in friendship or in love. There is a never ending adjustment and compromise that everyone is involved in. But, people change! Change is a very dynamic word in itself! We change according to our surroundings. (This is not about adapting)! The people around us influence us to a very great extent.We may not realize, but very gradually we tend to become like them. But we should not lose ourself somewhere in that process! Because that would eliminate the very reason ‘those people’ liked us!
I am not suggesting that we will always change for the worse. It may be the other way round. This is about just one of those times when we adopt the negative traits of people close to us. This “trait” may be their weakness but that does not necessarily mean that they will accept that in you!
In the beginning of a relatioship you are purely yourself, uninfluenced! The other person likes you for that! So don’t change to an extent that one day the person is looking at a reflection of himself in you. Something that you used to complain about once upon a time is now what people see as a part of YOU! Because that will not be a good feeling! People who are used to the earlier you are bound to compare! And all of a sudden you have lost yourself. What people liked in you at one point of time is no longer a part of you!

I would leave you on this note-Be yourself! People love you for that!