Something to ponder over…

Well I don’t know if this is the right post to start a blog.. but as told by my friend-“There is nothing different about writing a blog.. all the things that cross your mind which you put down on a paper,just type them here..” Hence my blog will talk about the feelings that produce scintiallations in my mind..! And here is the recent one.

RELATIONSHIP-almost everyone is a part of some kind of relationship (complete or incomplete)- in friendship or in love. There is a never ending adjustment and compromise that everyone is involved in. But, people change! Change is a very dynamic word in itself! We change according to our surroundings. (This is not about adapting)! The people around us influence us to a very great extent.We may not realize, but very gradually we tend to become like them. But we should not lose ourself somewhere in that process! Because that would eliminate the very reason ‘those people’ liked us!
I am not suggesting that we will always change for the worse. It may be the other way round. This is about just one of those times when we adopt the negative traits of people close to us. This “trait” may be their weakness but that does not necessarily mean that they will accept that in you!
In the beginning of a relatioship you are purely yourself, uninfluenced! The other person likes you for that! So don’t change to an extent that one day the person is looking at a reflection of himself in you. Something that you used to complain about once upon a time is now what people see as a part of YOU! Because that will not be a good feeling! People who are used to the earlier you are bound to compare! And all of a sudden you have lost yourself. What people liked in you at one point of time is no longer a part of you!

I would leave you on this note-Be yourself! People love you for that!